Flirting With a Girl Over Text: 7 Must-Have Tips with Examples

Are you occasionally unsure of what to text?

And then insecure that you lot overanalyze every message for minutes – maybe even hours – earlier you send information technology?

And even so, nevertheless pray that she responds?

You experience similar you tin can simply attract women out of sheer luck?

And you just don't know how to flirt over text?

Then read what I have to tell you, implement my tips and buy yourself a diamond-set walking stick with a white top chapeau…

Considering after you read this article, you will exist the biggest pimp she will ever text with.

You'll learn:

• My golden tips for texting a girl: two questions you should ask yourself before each text (and through which you'll ensure you send divine messages)
• How you lot effortlessly create texts that catapult her on a rollercoaster of emotions
• What you tin can larn from Thanos about exquisite chats (and how yous tin benefit from them)
• A powerful hack with which you tin can create massive attraction (all you have to exercise is employ one finger)
• Secret access to unpublished flirty texts to send a girl
• And much more than means to flirt with a girl over text…

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How to Seduce a Lady Past Text Message: seven Must-have Tips (incl. Text Flirting Examples)

Tip #i: Create a painting that makes even Van Gogh look old

The method y'all volition now learn is ane of the many hacks I give my coaching participants – especially if they don't know how to keep a conversation going with a girl (over text).

And if yous pay close attending, yous will transform your interactions from "dry out task interview" to pure magic from today on.

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Here are two questions that many men ask:

What do y'all do for a living?

What practise you like to do in your spare time? 🙂

If nosotros were together at one of my Attraction Bootcamps and I asked all men to raise their paw who are guilty of using such questions.

Then we would see something similar this:

Everybody is guilty of this from fourth dimension to fourth dimension and uses such questions.

Whether if it'southward in the context of having an interaction at a club, a bar… on the street, while meeting friends or texting with a chica bonita.

And don't get me wrong. There's zero incorrect with asking such questions if you're genuinely interested in the respective answers to these questions.

However, with a simple twist, yous can turn questions like these into powerful tools.

How?

Well, by doing this:

If you're curious most what her job is and yous're about to enquire her…

… ask yourself first!

• What practice you lot think she does for a living?
• What could a typical mean solar day in her life wait like?
• What could be her motivation for pursuing this profession?

Does she await like a typical law student to yous? Great, and then y'all can piece of work with that verbal assumption!

A bit random… but you seem similar a lawyerhoped-for to me who'll go along criminals out of jail… Yes, I tin can imagine that when I await at you.

Does she seem more like a strict teacher to you? Perfect. Then share your intuition:

With you lot, I've the feeling that you are a instructor… One who looks beyond the edge of her glasses and banishes circumspect students to the quiet corner… Yes, that's how you seem to me.

Why are these statements then incredibly powerful?

• You make her curious about how you lot came to your supposition and motivate her to respond
• They trigger emotions in her through their imagery (and inspire her to reply teasingly – which creates tension between you)
• Even if you lot're wrong with your assumption, you volition find out her actual profession (afterwards all, she can correct you in the "worst case")

The not bad advantage of texting:

Compared to face-to-face interactions in a bar, order or on the street, you accept relatively more Fourth dimension to create your text.

After all, you can think first about how to turn the things you want to know most her into statements.

Fourth dimension in which you make original statements out of run-of-the-mill statements.

For example, if you want to know what she does in her spare fourth dimension and make a argument similar…

You seem a little nerdy to me.

… you tin can – since y'all are only texting with her via chat – think a few seconds longer nigh how to give your statement more depth and brand it more visual…

You seem a bit nerdy… Yeah… I can imagine you collecting Star Wars figures in your spare fourth dimension and occasionally taking them out of their boxes to re-enact the Clone Wars… At least that's what my intuition tells me.

Will she LOVE statements like this GUARANTEED? Not always. Merely at that point when y'all're wrong or she feels the demand to defend herself (for example because she doesn't want to be perceived equally a nerd like in my demo), you bring a lot of tension into your chat.

Most people want to know WHY you lot think the way you do.

And and so you can either keep teasing her or you can weasel your way out of the situation by texting something similar…

Oh, I don't know why, I but kind of had the feeling haha

Not too hard, huh?

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Tip #ii: Don't be a normie

For any reason, many men consider it a bright idea to bombard their chosen ones with irrelevant questions (just like unsaid in tip #1).

• "Hey, what are y'all doing?"
• "How are you?"
• "How was your day?"
• "What did y'all do yesterday?"
• "What were yous doing the day earlier yesterday?"
• "What are you doing tomorrow?"
• "And the day subsequently tomorrow?"

Just reading these questions lonely increases the chances of her falling asleep (even when standing) by 169%.

Only why are these questions so damn wearisome?

"I know information technology, Dan. Because they don't trigger emotions!!"

Ah, I see you're a devoted AttractionGym reader.

Nice reply, amigo.

And yes, when you ask questions similar that, she actually feels like a wet fart.

In fact, in 11/10 cases, fifty-fifty the questioner feels absolutely nada when request such questions.

Doubtfulness at all-time because he can't think of anything better…

But that isn't the only reason why most of the interactions are doomed to failure.

It isn't merely the fact that the questions are themselves deadly boring and add nothing to someone'southward life.

No.

They're too damn inauthentic 99.8% of the time.

I mean hand on heart, bro.

Are you Actually interested in what your lady did yesterday or are yous merely request her because it'due south the only affair you can think of right at present?

Women have a sixth sense when information technology comes to authenticity.

She notices information technology when you aren't genuinely interested in what you lot're texting.

So, the lesson of this tip isn't that you should never ask questions…

It's this:

If y'all're asking questions, they should always belong to one of these two question categories:

1. Questions whose answers genuinely interest you
2. Questions which trigger EMOTIONS in your chica

A combination of both is a powerful reaction trigger that you lot tin can hands incorporate into your conversations.

Example?

Here I even used a question as an opener.

Spoiler: You can likewise use this tip in your "real life" interactions. But don't be too amazed at how well information technology works…

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Tip #iii: Awaken your inner Thanos

Many men become As well euphoric when they get a match or when their chosen one responds.

Like a squirrel on crevice, they tap hastily into their keyboards to adorn their flame.

The result?

Their messages turn into bible-long monologues.

Unfortunately, they don't realize that their – actually positive – intention to share equally much of themselves as possible makes them UNATTRACTIVE.

Why?

Because they are sub-communicating that they can't command their excitement.

They seem to desire to convince their flame at all costs and invest MASSIVELY in the conversation.

Even though their chica doesn't deserve that investment however…

Completely deterred, women usually don't answer them at all or respond very briefly…

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So that yous don't meet the same dilemma in the futurity, I'll give you lot a piece of advice now, which you should hammer deep into your brain.

It reads as follows:

Awaken your inner Thanos.

And I don't mean yous should wipe out half the intergalactic population to ensure the balance of the universe.

It's that when you write, y'all make sure that you invest about THE SAME as your madam does.

Our homey Thanos seems to like this screenshot as well…

Pro tip:

Apply this investment residue as a compass for your text conversations – Non as a strict texting rule.

If you observe in your chats that you often over-invest, then endeavor for a while to text only ⅔ of the corporeality she texts to you. Just for practice.

Experiment with an absolute 50:l balance and the ⅔ exercise and be surprised at how your conversations will develop.

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Tip #iv: At THIS time, y'all should answer

Hey, Barney, can you tell me again when I should text her?

Thanks, Barney.

This is going to end legen-…

Await, for it…

…in a HUGE Fail!

It'due south always good to exist told how you should NEVER comport.

And instead of explaining everything to you on the footing of grit-dry theory, I will give you a real-life case:

A friend of mine, let's call him Alex, has been living the "histrion lifestyle" for a healthy number of years.

He has no problems in approaching women, taking them on memorable dates and sleeping with them.

What he has trouble with, though, is keeping his mademoiselles interested.

What do you retrieve he could be doing wrong?

Is he miserable in bed?

…

Nope.

I already know from diverse trusted sources that Alex is relatively talented at leading women to orgasm.

The real reason for the growing disinterest after his rendezvous is rather banal:

His writing habits are sloppy.

After sharing a bed with a lady, he tends to text her back far too irregularly. At times, he fifty-fifty forgets to write.

If he so contacts his girls again, the vibe between them is ruined.

His women feel like Alex doesn't give a damn about them. Even though that's not always the case.

Alex leads a busy life and texting with him tin can be an absolute nightmare.

And because he usually takes longer than 24 hours to reply, he often loses women who really similar him.

Even if he'due south already had several dates with them!

And then, spiral what Barney says.

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Then, don't worry too much almost playing "hard to get".

Endeavour to make it touch on with her within 24 hours.

"Yes, alright, Dan. Merely what if she calls me the day later, for instance/ forgets me, so to speak?"

You're about to find out…

Tip #five: Hither's what she owes you

The sooner y'all accept what I'one thousand about to share with you, the quicker you volition get rid of your frustration when she doesn't text back.

There are countless screenshots on the cyberspace where guys lose their perfect poise when women don't requite them what they've hoped for.

Nice guys who seem to take a fetish for uncontrolled freak outs, and insult women in the shabbiest way.

Now I know that well-nigh of the AttractionGym readers are far likewise well educated to brand such a social suic!des…

But…

Merely to exist sure…

>> Here'southward What to Do When a Girl Ignores Your Text (+ Examples).

Here's a list of things a woman owes y'all:

• Zilch

There you get. Did I forget something?

Nope, looks pretty complete.

Watch it, bro.

Just considering a woman replies, doesn't hateful she'll get out with you.

Maybe she just wants some validation. Mayhap she just likes texting but doesn't experience the need to meet with you.

It's her correct to text with you and take some fun – just as it's your right to stop texting with her if she texts disrespectfully.

Save yourself unnecessary frustration if she has a different goal than you (and isn't interested in dating, for example) and end with her respectfully. Your rage won't modify her attitude. Non in whatsoever parallel universe.

Tip #6: Care for her like a vegetarian

Here I volition keep myself SHORT.

Considering this tip shouldn't need a long explanation.

"Treat her like a vegetarian" ways in plain English language:

Keep your sausage to yourself.

Your flesh flute, your perch, your snake, your baseball bat.

This malaka doesn't seem to understand me… Don't be like him!

Never transport her a d!ckpic if she doesn't inquire for information technology or if you aren't in the center of a spicy sexting sequence…

And even then, your slug can have a lot of the tension out of it. A subtle image, by implying a blooper, can be much hotter for a lady in this scenario.

Tip #7: Master THIS and make your texts audio similar a symphony in her ears

With the tip I'g most to requite y'all, you're going to wish someone had given it to you lot sooner…

And since nosotros've already reached the end of this article, I'chiliad going to give it to you in no-bullshit style. Directly to the point.

Prize question: What is lost in texting compared to ordinary contiguous interactions?

That'southward correct… a bunch of things.

Among other things, HOW you speak.

Unfortunately, yous can't work with speech rate, your tonality and expression when you text.

However, in that location is one underrated secret weapon that you should be aware of…

Vocalization messages.

Sure, you could just phone call your chica, simply there is no guarantee that she volition really answer the phone.

With vocalism messages, on the other hand, you lot tin sit back, relax, have all the time you need to record and ship it out as you delight.

And yes, I know… mayhap y'all think that you lot're non the most expressive speaker or your voice isn't sexy or masculine enough.

But f*ck THAT!

I can count on one hand how frequently I've received a compliment for my voice in existent life. And this is the case even though I've already spoken to at to the lowest degree 69 million people (110% truthful story).

Merely as before long equally I send a voice bulletin… Oh loooord.

It's nigh like I won the compliment lottery.

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Important: Fifty-fifty if you tin't change your voice directly in the brusque term, you will sound much sexier and more than masculine by following these 3 simple steps:

1. Speak slowly and controlled (as if you were underwater)
2. Avoid "uhm"south and "eehhm"southward – just interruption for a moment
3. Smile into your microphone while recording your bulletin – this hack has been used by customer service hotlines for years; Why? Because you automatically sound more charismatic – later on all, she can hear your smiling

Comprendre?

Practiced.

With my tips you're now ameliorate equipped than a samurai and know some powerful tips on how to flirt over text.

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